mohdrafie's posterous http://mohdrafie.posterous.com About work, life and love. posterous.com Tue, 10 Apr 2012 16:28:19 -0700 If you wake up with $1001 http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/if-you-wake-up-with-1001 http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/if-you-wake-up-with-1001 What would you do? Me?

Like anyone else, I dont read all comments, but I'm not sure if you do read. Maybe a random number generator. But who cares as we are all busy talking about how we would spend the money.

I always believe the easier we get the money, the easier it will be used until the last $1. So, here's 11 portion of where the money goes, as meaningful as possible.

- $100 for my mom and dad for the being inspirational and endless support.
- $100 for my youngest brother for his books. Sitting for O-level exams and he is working hard to get 9 A+. I have set a benchmark of obtaining straight A's in 2004. He's inspired and this portion goes to him.
- $100 for my younger brother who will become a dad soon. Got married a year earlier than me. Thia would mean a lot.
- $100 for my younger sister studying Islamic finance in Jordan. She will undergo operation for cancer-like. She has been very excellent with her studies. Awarded best sponsored students last year. Always called and told us to pray for her and if she scored 19/20 or perfect score for mid sem. - $100 for my wife. Got married for 2.5 months and she has been a supportive wife. I just want to give her this without asking what she want to spend with this money. - $100 for my best friend for the support. Being there when I need him, in good and bad times. He never ask for anything.
- $100 for a college students club which I have founded in 2006. - $100 for the orphan of Darul Hanan, near to my house. A place where I know they money would be used for the benefit of the kids.
- $100 for any social enterprise that promote good food and health. Please take less sugar, put the sweetness in your smile instead.
- $100 for starting a blog moneysign.-- and start talking how to save money, how to spend wisely, how to not get into debt, how to settle debt -- the practical way. - $1 for you. Hand delivered if possible. And start finishing what I have started cause I just need courage to do so. Money, I have enough to cover myself, so why do I need more. Greed? Maybe. Not grateful? Certainly. But if this is a gift, I'll take it anyway :)

So, why don't you tell me yours. Share with it here or at http://awe.sm/5jVnm

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Thu, 15 Mar 2012 17:35:00 -0700 Another day that is GIVEN http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/another-day-that-is-given http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/another-day-that-is-given

Spend the next 6 minutes thinking about the blessings that is given. Be grateful and may you live a meaningful life.

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Sun, 12 Feb 2012 05:39:16 -0800 The giraffe shirt http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/the-giraffe-shirt http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/the-giraffe-shirt Sitting at the airport with this giraffe shirt while waiting for the call to board the flight not forgetting my beautiful wife lying her head on my shoulder. I'm thinking whether the path I chose this far has given me the things I want in this life and the future.

Around a year back when I ask for release letter from Petronas, I have given away what I've been dreaming for.

1. If I am not meant for Petronas, and Allah has decide it, I will be grateful. I am because He has a better plan.
2. If I look for money, I can see how I have exceed my expectation besides the freedom I have.
3. If I look for status, I am a simple person who wish for a debt-free life, nice weekends, yearly gateaway, happy family and just talk about how happy I am and how life should be simple.

Don't get me wrong cause I still dream of driving a Lamboghini, just that for that much of hardwork I couldn't see myself doing it over working for others. I choose the path which I have to find my own business, build connections, share with others, establish profile and reputation, which basically mean I start from ground up.

Mom probably wouldn't believe me until I drive back home in a BMW. I have nothing to show to others because I want to prove to myself that I can do it. Even a Giant start as a baby.

So, I am sharing you my goal for 2012 and we'll review back in few months.

For 2012, I am setting a personal target of 100K income by October 2012. And if I reach so, I will bring my wife to perform Umrah and go for a holiday. And do something to give back towards the people.

And get another giraffe t-shirt to mark this achievement. Orrrr.. Maybe I'll go to safari in Africa and post some pictures.

Awesome, so, this is what I do to motivate myself. Work, life and love are the three elements that push us to move forward when you're down and feel like you hit the wall.

Don't forget to breath and enjoy your coffee or tea. Have a great week ahead.

Sunday, 13th February 2012
Senai International Airport

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Tue, 07 Feb 2012 07:15:00 -0800 Let there be light, Rafie and Farhana http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/let-there-be-light-rafie-and-farhana http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/let-there-be-light-rafie-and-farhana

Beyond words.

 

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Sun, 25 Dec 2011 11:12:13 -0800 Euphoria http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/euphoria http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/euphoria I almost finished coding my wedding app :)

The feeling is totally different. Hitting every button to share and looking at the feedback.

I learn two quick things:
- Business: Do it quick, launch and get feedback.
- Wedding: It's near!

Anyway, when we accomplish something, we will have the feeling of euphoria - absolute excitement to see what you plan turned into reality.

Essential that you share so that you spread the good news. The energy that comes with it. It multiply when you share and could motivate others.

If none respond, it is not that you have achieved something small, maybe it's just the people that believing, interested or love the idea is somehow not knowing about what you just did.

So, be patient and keep sharing the happiness and excitement.

My wedding page - http://www.facebook.com/pages/Rafie-and-Fana-Wedding/259738560715429?sk=app_1...
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Wed, 14 Dec 2011 08:47:52 -0800 Wedding, an emotional journey http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/wedding-an-emotional-journey http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/wedding-an-emotional-journey Around 30 days, I am married man. This journey is more than just about love, it consist of the other elements - life and work. Very emotional indeed.

I was bent into different direction afraid that I would snap at anytime. Persevere, the definition of it were tested. Determination, I know it is easier to spell it than to go through it.

Life is hard, because we have to work harder. Life is wonderful, when everything we do make sense.

And maybe a year later when I read this, I will be smiling and feeling grateful that I've gone through it whole-heartly.
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Sat, 05 Nov 2011 09:52:00 -0700 The untold story about running your own company http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/the-untold-story-about-running-your-own-compa http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/the-untold-story-about-running-your-own-compa

People have tendency to think that if you run your own company, you can be relax. Wake up late, work at home, free time to wash your car and send it for service at 11.00 in the morning.

I am not saying it is wrong because since I work own my own, I wake up early. Probably earlier than most of people, and one of the last to go back.

I have put my financial security at risk since I resign and I have to work to make it happen. It will happen and indeed, it is happening now...

Remember, if one day you run your own company - discipline yourself. You write your own staff handbook. Keep learning.

"Everyday I'm hustling"

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Sat, 22 Oct 2011 20:15:39 -0700 Difference between fail and quit http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/difference-between-fail-and-quit http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/difference-between-fail-and-quit Failing does not stop you. Quitting stops you...

- From 8 To Be Great
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Wed, 19 Oct 2011 16:56:00 -0700 Never live this life http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/never-live-this-life http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/never-live-this-life

A wise man said about what he surprised most about humanity, and the answer is MAN

Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.

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Tue, 11 Oct 2011 06:40:52 -0700 Some people and yesterday's smile http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/some-people-and-yesterdays-smile http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/some-people-and-yesterdays-smile

Some people just plain jealous about other people having things that they posses,

Some people just can't stop being envy of other people who just breath the same air ,

Some people just don't like to see people grow, must you always be on top?

Some people just feel like they are the provider of all things,

Some people just don't stop talking about other people, man, that's damn busy body!

And some people like me will just write... 

To let you know that words could be sharper than sharp knife.

And if you fall in between or stuck in the middle of this, don't give up!

Fight for your dreams.

Other people will tell you "No!" and you just don't give a sh*t about it.

Cause you will smile remembering today as I smile about yesterday.

 

Happy Birthday Dad. You just inspired me to fight for the things that I want in life and never stop treating others well. You teach me how to inspire other people and you're the best dad ever!

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Thu, 06 Oct 2011 00:10:00 -0700 I wish this for myself http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/i-wish-this-for-myself http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/i-wish-this-for-myself

I hope I would leave a good name and made the world a better place to live in. And maybe people would write this for me:

People leaving flowers at Apple stores; what other companies would expect something like that for their CEO?

Steve Jobs, you're the man.

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Thu, 22 Sep 2011 19:29:00 -0700 Never be afraid to share your idea http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/never-be-afraid-to-share-your-idea http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/never-be-afraid-to-share-your-idea

I wish to attend the Startup Malaysia next month and I believe that you shouldn't be afraid to share your idea. So, below are the things which I wish to start working on soon.

1. Project name:

Dreamboard

2. What is it?

Anyone can dream and with this dreamboard, you can let you dream go wild by embedding pictures on your dreamboard, save it, print it. Based on your notification settings, it will remind you regarding your dreams and somewhat give you a poke or push.

3. Brief Idea

Dreamboard is a web application that allow people to search for keywords that describe their dream i.e. Lamborghini and image will appear as result and draggable to the canvas where the dreamboard is.

The dreamboard could be save, print, share and it will send reminder or notification quarterly or annually to set people on their track achieving dreams. In a long run, we could get business angle, investors, corporate to look at people dreams and help them to achieve their dreams.

Leveraging on people dreams, it is a new way to predict the future and what people are thinking. Corporations could see if they have leave impact on people's life and should ads were to be embedded, it will be based on people's dream.

Dreamboard is a going to be released for free. Last but not the least, being able to dream is already a "gift", let alone compiling, sharing and see other people's dream come true.

4. Why Startup Malaysia?

I wish to get feedback from people who are attending the event as well as leveraging on the experience of the panels. I used to work with a telco startup and now running my own business. For now, I am funding my business by working freelance on project basis. I have a web design, user interface design as well as web development skills. I have been working previously as project and product manager. I see everything positively and wish to publish a book on Work, Life and Love. Currently writing the content on my posterous page - (you're reading it now)

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Wish me luck!

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Wed, 24 Aug 2011 15:41:00 -0700 Create the demand http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/create-the-demand http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/create-the-demand

Few months back, my fiance and I was thinking about starting an online business for two main reasons: trying and if we're making money, it is going to be our side income. I can say Fana Collection went well and this is the story of the idea behind it.

It is a bit push here and there. We have the fear of starting, but we figure out the fact that unless you try, you will never know. And the new definition of success we found is the first step that you take to overcome the fear of failure (even before you start doing anything).

Straight to the idea: Create the Demand

We sell women clothing online, focusing on two niche, Malay and Islamic clothing (with some accessories). It is not a new niche but we figure out the way by creating the demand. In any business, it is about finding the niche and we step into the market by offering new lines of Islamic clothing which is Jubah (robe/gown/cloak) imported from Jordan and Syria.

It is different as we're offering a new design, new material (e.g. denim) and new concept. What we have in mind is that we want everyone to look good everywhere, everytime. The same clothes that they bought for Eid, the same clothes they can wear to work, dinner and formal events. We believe that is why we can make it.

We promote our product to our friends and through social media, with a moderate approach. Asking people feedback on how we could improve and respond to it. Tomorrow marks the first month of our operation and we are making a profit (Alhamdulillah). We are grateful for everything - the support, the feedback, etc. 

And we learn that unless we start, we are not going anywhere.

You might wanna read this too: Never Give Up

 

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Fri, 19 Aug 2011 02:03:05 -0700 Bleak http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/bleak http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/bleak It's just sad for the fact that I'm trying to be nice and I end up looking the worst part of friendship. It is bleak. Friendship isn't something that we should sacrifice.

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Mon, 15 Aug 2011 00:29:24 -0700 Rich is not in abundance, but the feeling of satisfaction http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/rich-is-not-in-abundance-but-the-feeling-of-s http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/rich-is-not-in-abundance-but-the-feeling-of-s

I had a talk and discussion. On average, a WordPress designer/developer like me would make USD 50 per hour. An iPhone App developer would easily make USD 100 per hour (that is the minimum amount). 

If you do some calculation, by theory, I will make USD 8000 a month while USD 16,000 for the iPhone App developer*.

*Work 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, 4 weeks a month = 160 hours a month.

Initially I feel inferior sitting in the discussion for I have nothing to prove. Still, you know best about yourself. That is the reason why it took me an hour to realize that rich is not in abundance, but the feeling of satisfaction.

Why satisfaction?

Probably that is the gift of life, especially related back to working life. We hear or read people complaint about their work and the easiet way to do that is to quit their job. That is another risk. It could turn out well and not.

Few months back, my friend who I considered my mentor, Amzari, made me realized that not everyone is looking for the same thing.

  • Some people is pretty happy to work 9 - 5 and go back after that with no headache.
  • Some people is running their own business and it is their life.

Whatever!

So, whatever! There are people that earn more than that, has his own business empire, ride a Lamboghini Aventador, and still looking for more. Be content with what you had. For that is the essence of happiness.

 

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Wed, 10 Aug 2011 15:38:00 -0700 The best drug I tried so far http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/the-best-drug-i-tried-so-far http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/the-best-drug-i-tried-so-far

This is not another success story. It's how you should keep your head high and be focus on what you want to achieve. And don't bite more than you can chew.

In front of me is a paper written a 10% cut of few million ringgit deals. My task is to write proposals, get the application up and get first 100 customers. I am impressed. But not for so long. 

I got back and think. It's not about the money. People know that you can deliver stuff and you might be the right partner. But the big question is this:
Do you really wanna do it?
Money does not motivate me this time. Cause my time is more valuable than my the money. When I first ask for my 10 years time (contract bond) from PETRONAS and they released me, I'm trading my life with it. It's a decision some of us will try to avoid. But I am determine to make it happen. Even shit happens, I will (and gladly have - for the first year) make it happened.

How appealing the offer that comes in, I still believe few things:
  • I could earn more
  • 10% is not the right cut
  • And I could do so much more
In a nutshell (what a classic ending), try not to be motivated by money or sport cars. Be focused. The best drug I tried so far (and addicted to it) is to visit at a successful start-ups website and feel the energy going inside your body. Try to get that part and you will get what I mean.

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Tue, 09 Aug 2011 23:54:00 -0700 You look stress http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/rest-well http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/rest-well
Why wouldn't I? I wasn't feeling well lately and so much project need to be done.

Hint: To see whether you're stress or not, try to feel your shoulder (the trapezius muscle). If you're stress, this muscle will be tense. I learn this from a Stress Management class.

Back to what I want to share. So, take a time out. Even 10 minutes by just walking around the office or go to the balcony. Drink enough plain water. Stay relax and focused. If you are lost on what you have to do. I've written that article previously -- Busy is good, too busy is not good.

Do you know that if you are too stress you body will react by forcing yourself to get some rest. By these means:

  • Headache
  • Hungry
  • Sleepy
  • Fever

So, you will be prone to sickness. Your body is smarter than you think you are now. Haha.. Sorry, but you need some rest too. Even you have so much work, do not just kill something that is precious to you. Your health.

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Thu, 04 Aug 2011 15:37:41 -0700 Never Give Up http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/never-give-up http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/never-give-up Last night, I posted on my Facebook:

It's true when they say, "Never Give Up". Overcome that hurdle or anything that scared you from doing something. Those who are at the top realized that success is a habit.

I was doing my work (web development) and there are 3 big implementation that need to be done. I am scared that I can't deliver. Why should I be scared? Reputation and client's trust.

It has been two hours that I took to customize a simple line of code.
  • I've googled several times asking for customizing WordPress taxonomy - displaying categories, child only, etc
  • I've tested and break the code
I know I might have miss something but I just don't know what is it. Just before the battery is out, I found it! I know this story wouldn't beat the Thomas Edison's success story. But I am proud that I overcome my fear and succeed.

I guess it is true that success is a habit and not the plain simple thing people called luck!

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Fri, 22 Jul 2011 02:54:00 -0700 Busy is good. Too busy is not good. http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/busy-is-good-too-busy-is-not-good http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/busy-is-good-too-busy-is-not-good

I love to keep myself busy. But now, I really need to prioritize. It's always easier said than done. So few tips, just in case you're out of hand, just like me:

  1. List down your to do.
  2. Do have to courage to start? Start with #1. If you just did. Start with the easiest.
  3. Feel the motivation of Getting Things Done? Proceed #4.
  4. Evaluate which is the highest value and its importance.
  5. Which are things that delayed for sooo long. Reply that.
  6. Complete Step 4.
  7. Stop Facebook, Twitter, or whatever. You can complete the easy to medium task in one hour. And you will be left with at least 3 big tasks to complete.
  8. Try it.

The point here is... you just start. Step 2 is the crucial part. IF you stop somewhere, start bark Step 2. Job done!

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Mon, 11 Jul 2011 18:23:00 -0700 Goodness in the nervousness http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/goodness-in-the-nervousness http://mohdrafie.posterous.com/goodness-in-the-nervousness

I am not working on my own. Doing something that I love to do on the web, with the web. In few days, I am looking to release a new product which solve problem that I see everyday and helping many people in one go.

Have faith.

Even I am nervous about the product launch and everything, I was told that:

If you aren't embarrased by your first release - you are rolling out too slow.

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